For Priests, Religious & Lay Mentors

Share your gift of spiritual guidance with those who need it most

GraceBook gives you a secure platform to offer spiritual mentorship online — on your schedule, end-to-end encrypted, with nothing kept afterwards and zero administrative burden.

The faithful are waiting

Millions of Catholics lack access to regular spiritual guidance. Geography, schedules, and life circumstances create barriers that technology can help overcome.

3,500+

U.S. parishes without a resident pastor

65%

of people aged 13 to 25 are not part of a religious or spiritual community

28%

of Catholics attend Mass weekly

Sources: CARA (2025), Pew Research Center (2025), Springtide Research Institute (2024)

Offer the guidance they're searching for

Choose the types of spiritual support you're called to provide. You set the scope — the platform handles the rest.

Spiritual Direction

Ongoing accompaniment for seekers at any stage of their faith journey

Discernment Coaching

Guide souls through major vocational and life decisions

Prayer Support

Help seekers build and deepen a consistent prayer life

Faith Formation

RCIA support, catechesis, and Catholic teaching

Confession Preparation

Examination of conscience tools to prepare for in-person Confession

Spiritual Conversation

Open-ended pastoral listening for those who need to be heard

How to become a GraceBook mentor

Five steps from application to your first session — thorough enough to protect every seeker, simple enough to respect your time.

1

Apply Online

Complete a brief application with your background, areas of expertise, and the types of spiritual support you wish to offer.

2

Sign the Mentor Agreement

At the end of the application you sign the Mentor Agreement in your own name. Nothing is asked of your bishop, superior, or parish priest.

3

A Person Reads It

Someone at GraceBook reads every application before it is published. We do not verify what you tell us, and we do not claim to.

4

Set Your Availability

Choose your schedule, languages, and how many seekers you can take on. Adjust anytime.

5

Begin Serving

Seekers find you through our directory. Sessions are encrypted and scheduling is automatic. We do not ask what a session is about, and we host no notes.

A platform designed for your ministry

We handle the technology so you can focus entirely on the person in front of you.

Your Schedule, Your Rules

Set available hours, block off days, and limit how many sessions you take per week. Adjust anytime from your dashboard.

Flexible Video Sessions

Every session is a secure video call with built-in chat. Seekers and mentors can toggle camera and microphone on or off as needed.

End-to-End Encrypted, Then Gone

Video, audio and text go directly between you and the seeker, encrypted end to end. Calls are never recorded, and text messages never reach GraceBook.

Your Notes Stay Yours

GraceBook hosts no session notes. Whatever you write down you keep outside the platform, as those who accompany others always have — where we cannot read it, lose it, or be compelled to produce it.

Minimal Administrative Burden

Scheduling, reminders, and session tracking are handled automatically. Spend your time on what matters — the souls in front of you.

Optional Gifts

Seekers can offer you a voluntary gift after sessions. Gifts go directly to you. The Terms allow GraceBook to keep a percentage to sustain the platform; today it keeps none. You choose whether to accept gifts, and no seeker is ever turned away.

Built on Canon Law — not around it

GraceBook is run by a lay civil corporation. It is not a Church body, and holds no authority to grant or withhold permission to minister. That permission comes from your bishop, superior or pastor, and stays with them.

Canon 213

The faithful have the right to spiritual assistance from their pastors

Canon 519

Pastors exercise care under the authority of the diocesan bishop

Canon 517 §2

Lay faithful and religious may share in pastoral care under proper supervision

Canon 678 §1

Religious are subject to the bishop in works of apostolate and external ministry

Canon 960

Confession requires physical presence — no online sacraments

Sacramental Boundaries

GraceBook provides spiritual accompaniment — never sacramental ministry. Clear disclaimers appear on every session. Confession preparation tools guide seekers back to in-person Confession at their local parish. No ambiguity. No exceptions.

What you undertake

No letter from your chancery, and nothing to wait on. You sign the Mentor Agreement at the end of the application, in your own name, and a person reads what you have written.

Read the Mentor Agreement in full

What you undertake

  • To accompany in accordance with Scripture, Tradition and the Magisterium
  • That you hold whatever permission your state of life requires
  • That you have the formation and experience this work asks for
  • To use this ministry for the good of the person and no other end

In short

Your signature, at the end of the application.

What we ask you for

  • Nothing from your bishop, superior or parish priest
  • No ordination certificate, letter of good standing or safeguarding certificate
  • You may add a letter from your authority if you have one — it is welcome and it gates nothing
  • Ten minutes, and your own word

In short

One form. No document from anybody else.

What happens if you break it

  • Immediate suspension, without prior notice
  • Temporary or permanent removal from GraceBook
  • A report to your bishop, religious superior, pastor or institute
  • A report to civil authorities where the law or somebody's safety requires it

In short

Sections 5 and 12 of the agreement.

Your conversations are sacred to us

We built GraceBook with the same reverence for confidentiality that the Church demands of spiritual direction.

End-to-End Encrypted

Video and audio travel directly between you and the seeker, encrypted end to end — which works because a session is between the two of you and nobody else. Text sessions travel the same way, and their messages never reach GraceBook.

No Surveillance

We do not monitor, record, or proactively review session content. Your conversations remain private.

Nothing Archived

No transcript of a text session ever exists on GraceBook: messages pass only between your two devices. Nothing about what a session is for is stored beforehand.

Minimal Data, Your Control

We collect as little as we can, never sell it, and you can delete your account yourself at any time.

Ready to extend your ministry?

There are souls who need your guidance and can't reach you in person. GraceBook makes it possible — securely and simply.

Apply to Become a Mentor
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